“Modern women of India are no longer captive of traditions”

In my views this is not true. In our country most of the household is being looked after by women and earning is done by the men. Women have to take care of the whole family and perform all domestic activities. She is even responsible to teach values to children. Even if a woman is working, her in- laws would either force to leave the job or they expect her to complete all household chores before leaving for the office. Is this defination of the Modern Indian Woman?


Please add your views to this article.

Whenever there is any argument between wife and mother, most of time husband favor his mother side. Why this happens?

Some men usually stay out of the matter. They let the two, mother and wife to reach on the conclusion. But some husbands blindly favor their mother and at last all blames fall on wife.

If mother anytime complains about her daughter in-law behavior to his son not in front of her, then she clearly tries to create gap between husband and wife. If she really wants her son to know about the situation, she must have discussed the issue in front of her daughter in law.

If mother said something that has upset her, it means there was such thing which made her cry. In this situation not reacting to situation may spoil the relation with the wife. It does not mean go and fight with mother. Husband should take the situation seriously and should try to see the wife’s view rather than defending mother.

But this is not always true. The situation may be other way round. May be wife is creating the gap between husband and her mother in law.

Husband should judge the situation wisely and tackle the situation accordingly rather than favoring either mother or wife blindly.
Both relations is of equal importance for any husband.


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Should women pursue job after marriage?

This problem is common among all the women. To address this problem a girl can discuss about her continuation of job with her husband and family members. No doubt after marriage responsibility of girl increases. She has to manage work at office as well as work at home too. If women is in job and continuation of job provides her self esteem, economic security and feeling of independence, then it worth pursuing it but her job should not disturb her married life. Leaving job for husband ego or because of the clash with the husband is not a wise decision. After child, priorities of both partner changes. After the baby’s birth if she is not able to take care of everything, it’s better to quit from the job. Moreover family and baby are more important than anything unless there is financial problem. If she feel that she is meant to do something more, then there various alternatives available. She can think of starting her own crèche, play school or even start taking up tuitions.

Please come up with your views.

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This blog is all about general awareness, parenting, motherhood, about women, marital issues, recipes, health issues and everyday life. It is medium for me to share my feeling, ideas and views with other people.

I am gifted with one son and he is blessing of GOD to me. I preferred to leave my job so that I can give maximum time to my child and my family. It’s being good and wonderful experience to see my loving child growing.

Live-in relationship

Live in relationship is concepts under which two people live together before marriage. This concept is very common in western countries but is also spreading its root in India. This subject is controversial.

Many advocates live in relation as it allows them to understand each other better before they go for commitment. This helps them to decide whether the person they are going to marry is perfect for them or not. According to them their love for their partner does not require any certification or any stamp.

But very few live in relationship end up in marriage.

If two people love each other, is it necessary to judge each other before marriage? In love people overlook each other flaws and moreover no one is flawless. Marriage gives stability to relation, each partner share everything they have with each other.


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Rakhi Celebration – 4th Aug 2009

On 4th Aug 2009 I went to play school to pick up my son, Ayush. The school has organized a Rakhi Celebration for all kids. Every girl has to tie a Rakhi on boys wrists. Celebration has been orgainised So that kids enjoy it and learn at same time. These things are necessary in today’s environment where we live in a nuclear family. And now a days working parents prefer one or two kids. Where only few are lucky to have one sister and one brother combination. So kids miss lots of things we used to get in a bigger family with lots of cousins.

After reaching I asked the school staff to call Ayush. When his teacher brought him to me, he just ran toward me and hugged me tightly and started crying. I was shocked to see him behaving like this. Many things came into my mind, has teacher said something to him or any other child has hurt him while playing etc. I rushed to teacher cabin to know the reason, his teacher replied “Nothing serious as such after rakhi celebration he started crying; even we asked him the reason”.

Then I saw rakhi on his wrist, now everything was clear. I hugged him and asked him what happned. He replied sweetly “mummy didi ne mujhe rakhi bandh diya mujhe aur tika laga diya”. Actually this was his first rakhabandhan and he was not able to make out what actually was going around.

On reaching home he removed his rakhi first. I offered him his favorite mitahyi kala jamun. I lift him up and try to tell him what rakhi celebration is all about. When I told him we will visit nani’s house tomorrow for rakhi. smile came on my face on his prompt reply that “mama bhi royega jab aap rakhi bandhoge”.

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H1N1 (Swine Flu)

Symptoms
Cough along with chest pain.
Respiratory problem.
Low blood pressure and nails start turning to blue.
Persistent fever for more than 5 days.
Headache and vomiting sometimes.

High Risk Groups
Diabetics
Heart Patient
Children between 0-5 yr of age.
People above 65 yr of age.
Pregnant Women.
Cancer and HIV Patient.
Obese people.

Precautions
Wash hand regularly.
Maintain hygiene.
Avoid crowded place.
Stay away from infected people.
Don’t send child to school/play if they are not well.
Avoid touching face and eyes with your hand uselessly.
Don't take self medication as that might make H1N1 virus resistant.
In case of doubt of suffering from swine flu, consult designated govt. hospital.
Call toll-free lines 1075 or 1800-11-4377 for more information


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What is the base of any marriage?

Whenever any one of us confront with this question, the possible answer that comes in our mind is trust and love. Both the partner should have respect for each other and both should give importance to each other dreams. But if partners are not communicating to each other or communication is just for name sake, then from where trust will come. Neither the husband or nor the wife will be knowing much about each other. Lack of communication breeds apathy and mistrust, which over a period destroys the best of marriages.

Arguing is always good between any husband and wife as it clear all misunderstanding, but imposing of decision either on husband or wife can make the relation bitter. Decision should always be taken, considering all aspects including each other engagement, priorities etc. Otherwise, ill feelings can build up, and turn into wounds that never heal.

Never try to slight your partner, especially before others. It is one wound that never heals. Both the partner should try to change if the situation demands. Minor changes in any of the partner for his/her love can never hurt their ego or self respect.

Marriage is an emotional relationship. This only survives if both partner communicate and give importance to each other.

Please come up with your suggestion if anybody has.

How to tackle aggressiveness of kids

Most of the parents go through this problem. But there is nothing to worry about. What actually needed is your little effort and patience.

Today aggressiveness has become common behavior of most of the kids. Many times parents are solely responsible for their child behavior. Kids learn most of the behavior from their parents and if parents show their anger by hitting, throwing, or tearing, kids also follow the same.

If this is not the reason then try to tell your kid how to behave, what behavior are acceptable, by hugging and talking softly or by making story so that he can easily understand why to behave properly.

Always compliment your kid for good behavior and never remind the kid every time of his wrong behavior. Try to be the best friend of your kid and try to resolve his problem. Always listen to kid patiently.

Always try to identify the problem and involve child also in finding out the solution. This will ensure them that you are taking their side and give priorities to their views.

We should always remember that kids always look for love and affection.

Sangri-la regency hotel in Darjeeling

Darjeeling is one of the best places to visit and to spend one’s holiday.Ofcourse for this anyone would look for affordable and well maintained hotel.
Sangri-la regency is one of the known hotels in Darjeeling with perfect location.

Type of Accommodation
• Twin/ Double Deluxe Room.
• Deluxe Attic Room

 12 Guest Rooms
o Fully furnished with soft tones and innovative lighting.
o Separate seating area in all rooms.
o Double deluxe room with private balconies.

 Roof top Lounge & Bar.
The perfect place to meet all guests. Panoramic views of the Himalayas, relaxed seating around an attractive central fire place and well stocked bar.


Place of Interest
 Tiger Hill
 The Observatory Hill.
 Darjeeling Himalayan.
 Railway or the Toy Train.
 Tea Garden.
 Buddhist Monasteries.
 Japanese Peace Pagoda
 Dhirdam Temple.
 Natural History Museum.
 Himalayan Zoological Park.
 Passenger Rope Way
 Ava Art Gallery.

How to Locate.
The hotel is on Gandhi Road, a few minutes’ walk from Club Side motor stand. The nearest landmark is Bethany Primary School which is directly opposite the hotel.

Information from : http://www.shangri-la-regency.com/

Makhane ki Kheer

Ingredients required
• Makhana-50gm
• Sugar-150gm
• Custard Powder-1full spoon
• Few cashewnuts, pista, kismis and kesar for colour
• Grated coconut-1/2 cup.

How to prepare
• Grind the makhana in mixer and keep aside.
• Keep custard powdered and kesar in cool milk and mix it well.
• Heat Kadhai and add 1L milk in it.
• Add grinded makhana and cardamom powder.
• Cook for 10 min and then add sugar and milk containing kesar and custard.
• Cook till milk reduces to 3/4th and then remove the kadhai from flame.
. Now add grated coconut, sliced cashewnut, pista and few kismis.
. Keep it in refrigerator and serve it chilled.


Now enjoy the makhane ki kheer