Whenever there is any argument between wife and mother, most of time husband favor his mother side. Why this happens?

Some men usually stay out of the matter. They let the two, mother and wife to reach on the conclusion. But some husbands blindly favor their mother and at last all blames fall on wife.

If mother anytime complains about her daughter in-law behavior to his son not in front of her, then she clearly tries to create gap between husband and wife. If she really wants her son to know about the situation, she must have discussed the issue in front of her daughter in law.

If mother said something that has upset her, it means there was such thing which made her cry. In this situation not reacting to situation may spoil the relation with the wife. It does not mean go and fight with mother. Husband should take the situation seriously and should try to see the wife’s view rather than defending mother.

But this is not always true. The situation may be other way round. May be wife is creating the gap between husband and her mother in law.

Husband should judge the situation wisely and tackle the situation accordingly rather than favoring either mother or wife blindly.
Both relations is of equal importance for any husband.


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